Three Valuable Takeaways Inspired By A Happy Birthday Call

Me and my Brother Elisha (right) on the day he graduated high school. Don’t ask what I’m doing with my hands, I don’t know.

Elisha, my younger brother by seven years, just turned 21. It seems like just yesterday, Elisha was one year old, smothering his first birthday cake all over his face because he didn’t know what else to do.

I called him on his 21st birthday, and we reflected on how far our relationship has come. The reflection eventually brought to mind valuable takeaways about leadership, legacy, and applying life lessons.

I guess he managed to get some of the cake in his mouth.

Before I share those, allow me to provide some context:

Nowadays, Elisha and I talk somewhat regularly. We’re super supportive of each other. But it wasn’t always like this because, quite frankly, I used to be a selfish asshole.

Growing up, Elisha wanted nothing more than to be my friend. Unfortunately, rather than a friend, I could only see him as a nuisance, someone who was taking away my time, space, resources, and energy.

I was the second oldest out of six siblings. My dad always tried to instill an understanding of how much my younger siblings looked up to me. He wanted me to realize I was in an impactful position. But I didn’t.